wsi timeout, wsi hrtimer, sequencer timeout and vh-protocol timer
all now participate on a single sorted us list.
The whole idea of polling wakes is thrown out, poll waits ignore the
timeout field and always use infinite timeouts.
Introduce a public api that can schedule its own callback from the event
loop with us resolution (usually ms is all the platform can do).
Upgrade timeouts and sequencer timeouts to also be able to use us resolution.
Introduce a prepared fakewsi in the pt, so we don't have to allocate
one on the heap when we need it.
Directly handle vh-protocol timer if LWS_MAX_SMP == 1
Adapt service loops and event libs to use microsecond waits
internally, for hrtimer and sequencer. Reduce granularity
according to platform / event lib wait.
Add a helper so there's a single place to extend it.
1) This moves the service tid detection stuff from context to pt.
2) If LWS_MAX_SMP > 1, a default pthread tid detection callback is provided
on the dummy callback. Callback handlers that call through to the dummy
handler will inherit this. It provides an int truncation of the pthread
tid.
3) If there has been any service calls on the service threads, the pts now
know the low sizeof(int) bytes of their tid. When you ask for a client
connection to be created, it looks through the pts to see if the calling
thread is a pt service thread. If so, the new client is set to use the
same pt as the caller.
