This changes the vhost destroy flow to only hand off the listen
socket if another vhost sharing it, and mark the vhost as
being_destroyed.
Each tsi calls lws_check_deferred_free() once a second, if it sees
any vhost being_destroyed there, it closes all wsi on its tsi on
the same vhost, one time.
As the wsi on the vhost complete close (ie, after libuv async close
if on libuv event loop), they decrement a reference count for all
wsi open on the vhost. The tsi who closes the last one then
completes the destroy flow for the vhost itself... it's random
which tsi completes the vhost destroy but since there are no
wsi left on the vhost, and it holds the context lock, nothing
can conflict.
The advantage of this is that owning tsi do the close for wsi
that are bound to the vhost under destruction, at a time when
they are guaranteed to be idle for service, and they do it with
both vhost and context locks owned, so no other service thread
can conflict for stuff protected by those either.
For the situation the user code may have allocations attached to
the vhost, this adds args to lws_vhost_destroy() to allow destroying
the user allocations just before the vhost is freed.
1) Remove the whole ah rxbuf and put things on to the wsi buflist
This eliminates the whole detachability thing based on ah rxbuf
state... ah can always be detached.
2) Remove h2 scratch and put it on the wsi buflist
3) Remove preamble_rx and use the wsi buflist
This was used in the case adopted sockets had already been read.
Basically there are now only three forced service scenarios
- something in buflist (and not in state LRS_DEFERRING_ACTION)
- tls layer has buffered rx
- extension has buffered rx
This is a net removal of around 400 lines of special-casing.
