Adapt service loops and event libs to use microsecond waits
internally, for hrtimer and sequencer. Reduce granularity
according to platform / event lib wait.
Add a helper so there's a single place to extend it.
Since the messages are queued and then read in order from the event loop
thread, it's not generally safe to pass pointers to argument structs,
since there's no guarantee the lifetime of the thing sending the message
lasted until the sequencer read the message.
This puts pressure on the single void * argument-passed-as-value... this patch
adds a second void * argument-passed-as-value so it's more possible to put
what's needed directly in the argument.
It's also possible to alloc the argument on the heap and have the sequencer
callback free it after it has read it.
Add a generic table-based backoff scheme and a helper to track the
try count and calculate the next delay in ms.
Allow lws_sequencer_t to be given one of these at creation time...
since the number of creation args is getting a bit too much
convert that to an info struct at the same time.
