Several new ops are planned for tls... so better to bite the bullet and
clean it out to the same level as roles + event-libs first.
Also adds a new travis target "mbedtls" and all the tests except
autobahn against mbedtls build.
Since new roles may be incompatible with http, add support for
alpn names at the role struct, automatic generation of the
default list of alpn names that servers advertise, and the
ability to override the used alpn names per-vhost and per-
client connection.
This not only lets you modulate visibility or use of h2,
but also enables vhosts that only offer non-http roles,
as well as restricting http role vhosts to only alpn
identifiers related to http roles.
