Add a generic table-based backoff scheme and a helper to track the
try count and calculate the next delay in ms.
Allow lws_sequencer_t to be given one of these at creation time...
since the number of creation args is getting a bit too much
convert that to an info struct at the same time.
If you're providing a unix socket service that will be proxied / served by another
process on the same machine, the unix fd permissions on the listening unix socket fd
have to be managed so only something running under the server credentials
can open the listening unix socket.
