Add support for external pthreads lib on windows and some docs about how to do.
It can build with LWS_WITH_THREADPOOL and LWS_WITH_MINIMAL_EXAMPLES including the
pthreads-dependent ones without warnings or errors on windows platform as well with this.
pthreads_t can be anything, including a struct - not a pointer-to-a-struct
but the struct itself. These can't be cast to a void * for printing as they can
on linux, where the base type is a pointer.
Let's fix all the usage of those to determine their own thread index in terms
of the meaning to the program rather than as a tid.
In the case code is composed into a single process, but it isn't monolithic in the
sense it's made up of modular "applications" that are written separate projects,
provide a way for the "applications" to request a callback from the lws event loop
thread context safely.
From the callback the applications can set up their operations on the lws event
loop and drop their own thread.
Since it requires system-specific locking to be threadsafe, provide a non-threadsafe
helper and then indirect the actual usage through a user-defined lws_system ops
function pointer that wraps the unsafe api with the system locking to make it safe.
