Add support for external pthreads lib on windows and some docs about how to do.
It can build with LWS_WITH_THREADPOOL and LWS_WITH_MINIMAL_EXAMPLES including the
pthreads-dependent ones without warnings or errors on windows platform as well with this.
pthreads_t can be anything, including a struct - not a pointer-to-a-struct
but the struct itself. These can't be cast to a void * for printing as they can
on linux, where the base type is a pointer.
Let's fix all the usage of those to determine their own thread index in terms
of the meaning to the program rather than as a tid.
Fix pthreads detection in the minimal examples and add it where needed.
Fix unistd.h include to be conditional on not WIN32
With this, -DLWS_WITH_MINIMAL_EXAMPLES=1 is happy and warning-free
on windows.
